About me

Welcome to my blog! I’m Anika, a Software Engineer in my late 20s, currently navigating the vibrant world of tech. Originally from India, my journey has taken me to the United States, bringing with it a whirlwind of experiences and challenges.

As life unfolded, I found myself encountering hurdles that demanded my attention and resilience. Along the way, I’ve learnt a lot about myself and the weight of unresolved trauma in my life, leading me to seek therapy for recovery.

In addition to my professional endeavors, I wear many hats in my daily life. I am a loving partner, a devoted pet parent, a passionate volunteer, a trusted friend, and a cherished daughter. Recently, I’ve also become a proud homeowner. Each role holds significance and adds layers of complexity to my journey.

Trauma has left an indelible mark on every aspect of my existence. It has influenced how I approach worry, exhibit care, process thoughts, and even how I engage with the world. If a magical solution existed to erase the pain, I would embrace it without hesitation. However, since such a solution remains elusive, my current journey revolves around reflection – examining the past and its impact on my present, with the intention of liberating my future self from the burdens I bear today.

While I write under the pen name Anika, please know that the words and emotions I share are authentic and deeply personal. I have chosen this pen name to create a sense of privacy and protection as I navigate the sensitive nature of my experiences.

Through this blog, I invite you to join me on a path of self-discovery, healing, and growth. As an individual who has walked through the depths of trauma, I have learned firsthand the transformative power of sharing our stories and finding strength in vulnerability.

Together, let us navigate the complexities of our experiences, share the weight of our stories, and uncover the transformative power of embracing our truth. This blog is my space to openly express my experiences and reflections as they unfold, with the hope of offering support, inspiration, and solace to those who may be on similar paths.